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Why Talking Like a Human is the Secret to Keeping Your Team Happy (and Actually Getting Things Done)

Written by Dayle Teegarden | Jan 21, 2026 1:47:57 PM

The modern workplace has a massive problem, and it’s not just "market volatility" or "disruption." It’s much simpler: hardly anyone feels a real connection to their job anymore. This wave of disengagement isn’t just a disappointment for the people doing the work; it’s costing companies billions in lost productivity every year. 

Usually, the issue isn't the actual tasks people are doing. People can handle a tough job. What they can’t handle is feeling like a cog in a machine run by a robot. They don't feel a real, human connection to their leaders. To get to the bottom of this, we need to stop using corporate-speak and look at what’s happening on the shop floor. 

Employee engagement is really just a fancy way of saying someone cares about their company and its goals. When people feel like they belong, they want to work harder. Leadership communication is the intentional, steady, and honest way leaders talk to their teams to share the big picture. 

But here’s the kicker: being a nice, empathetic communicator is the absolute best thing a leader can do, but it only works if your actions match your words. 

 The "Intent-Action" Gap: Why "Good Talk" Fails

There is an uncomfortable reality we have to face: Better communication doesn't always lead to better behaviour. You can have a leader who speaks eloquently about safety and trust in a Town Hall, yet their team still stays silent or takes dangerous shortcuts the second things get busy. This is the Intent-Action Gap. 

The Tension in the Trenches 

  • The Intent: Leaders usually rate their own intent very highly. They want to be supportive. They want people to work safely. 
  • The Action: On the frontline, that intent often evaporates under pressure. 
  • The Result: Workers can repeat the safety rules perfectly in an induction, but in "real work," they adapt and improvise because the system doesn't support the "right" action in that moment. 

Think about a supervisor who talks about "Safety First" on Monday morning, but by Friday afternoon, they are pushing the crew to "just get it done" because a shipment is late. That isn't just a communication failure; it’s a total collapse of trust. The team learns very quickly that the "human talk" is just for show, and the "real" rules are different. 

 Ideal Conditions vs. The Real World

Much of the advice you read online assumes work happens in a calm, rational office where people have time to ponder their "purpose." In reality, the most important decisions happen when: 

  • People are rushed and tired. 
  • Priorities are clashing (like "be fast" vs. "be safe"). 
  • Stopping work has social or career consequences. 

The Problem with "Normalising" 

A team might feel "engaged" in the sense that they like each other, but they might still normalise taking shortcuts because "that’s how we’ve always survived the peak periods." 

If a worker notices a hazard but doesn't raise it because the crew is already behind schedule, they aren't being "lazy." They are following a social norm. They don't want to be the person who slows everyone down. If a leader wants to change this, they have to do more than just say, "Please speak up." They have to prove that speaking up won't result in a "chewing out" or social rejection. 

 The Big Two: Trust and Clarity

Getting people to really care about their work comes down to two big things: building unshakeable trust and making sure everyone knows what on earth is going on.

Building Trust (The Currency of Leadership)

Think of communication as the way you build trust—the "currency" that makes a high-performing team work. When leaders are open and reliable, it stops the rumours and anxiety that happen when people are left in the dark. 

One thing leaders must do is be totally transparent—sharing the "why" behind big decisions, even when the news is rubbish. It’s also vital to show you aren't perfect. Admitting you mucked up or don't have all the answers isn't a weakness; it's a superpower. In fact, research shows that employees are 5.3 times more likely to trust a leader who shows a little vulnerability. It proves you're human, which makes people feel much safer and more connected to the team.

Cascading Communication

Good communication is the only way to get rid of the stress that comes from confusing messages. When big plans aren't explained clearly, people feel lost, and the work starts to suffer. 

The best way to fix this is Cascading Communication. This is just a fancy term for making sure that every single person, all the way down to the newest hire, knows exactly how their daily job helps the company reach its big goals. When communication is messy, the results are a disaster: 86% of employees and leaders say that poor communication is the main reason for workplace failures. 

 The Real-World Payoff: Productivity and Retention

When a leader manages to build trust and keep things clear, the result is a team that cares, which leads to some massive wins for the business. 

Crushing It with Productivity and Profit 

People who are into their jobs don't just work longer hours; they work smarter. This extra effort comes from the sense of purpose they get when their leader talks to them like a person. The numbers don't lie: 

  • Highly engaged employees are 21% more productive. 
  • Teams with high engagement scores are 23% more profitable. 

Good communication gives people the info they need to make smart choices on their own. When employees feel trusted to own their work, they stop waiting for orders and start delivering way better results. 

Keeping Great People and Saving Cash 

Replacing a worker is incredibly expensive—it can cost anywhere from 20% to over 200% of their yearly salary just to find and train someone new. 

On the flip side, employees who feel valued and "in the loop" are way less likely to go looking for a new job. That’s why regular, high-quality one-on-one chats are so important. These shouldn't just be boring status updates; they are an investment in that person's career and happiness. It shows you see them as a human being, which saves the company a mountain of recruitment money. 

 Designing for Behaviour (Not Just Awareness)

Even the greatest communicator in the world will struggle if: 

  • Signals are mixed: You talk about safety but reward only speed. 
  • Follow-through is inconsistent: You ask for feedback but never act on it. 
  • Systems reward output over learning: You punish people for honest mistakes. 

A truly successful leader doesn't just "talk better"; they design for behaviour. They start asking: 

  • What behaviours are rewarded or ignored here? 
  • What signals does this organisation send when things get hard? 
  • Where does the system quietly push people away from our stated values? 

Psychological Safety: The Secret Sauce 

"Psychological Safety" is just a scientific way of saying the team feels safe to take risks, voice concerns, or admit they made a mistake without worrying about being embarrassed. Leaders build this safety by how they react to bad news. If you treat bad news as a learning moment rather than a reason to punish someone, you create a culture where failing is just a step towards a better idea. 

 How to Actually Be a Better Communicator

If you want your team to care, you have to move past the theory and start using some real-world strategies. 

The Magic of Actually Listening 

Communication isn't just about talking; it's a two-way street. While leaders need to be good at getting their point across, their best tool is empathetic listening. This means making a real effort to understand how the person is feeling. You have to put your ego aside for a minute. A great move is to ask open-ended questions like, "Help me understand your side of this." When people feel like their voice actually matters, they start to care more. In fact, teams with leaders who really listen report 31% higher trust. 

Saying "Good Job" the Right Way 

Evidence shows that employees who don't feel appreciated are twice as likely to say they're going to quit in the next year. To make recognition work, you have to be fast and specific. Don't just say "good job"—tell them why what they did was great. 

Staying Consistent and Keeping a Rhythm 

Communication shouldn't just be something you do when there’s a fire to put out. It needs to be a regular, predictable rhythm. Use Town Halls for the big-picture vision, Team Meetings to make sure everyone's on the same page for the week, and those crucial One-on-Ones to give personal support. 

The Bottom Line 

To pull it all together, the "bottom line" is that being a great leader isn't just about giving a cracking speech; it’s about ensuring your intent matches the action on the ground. You must realise that work is inherently messy and full of pressure, so if your "human" talk isn't backed up by a system that rewards honesty and safety over raw speed, your team will see right through it. 

Real trust is built when you’re willing to be a bit vulnerable and ensure everyone understands the "why" behind their tasks, which effectively kills off the rumour mill and can make your business 21% more productive. Ultimately, you need to stop just "talking" and start designing for behaviour, making sure your daily signals—like how you react to a mistake during a rush—don't accidentally punish the very people you’re trying to engage. By keeping a steady, predictable rhythm of chats and one-on-ones, you turn communication from a one-off event into the heartbeat of a company that people really care about. 

The Key Takeaways 

  • Mind the Gap: Your words in the office must align with the reality on the tools, especially when things get hectic. 
  • System Over Speech: If the system rewards speed over safety, the "safety speech" is just noise. 
  • The Trust Payoff: Vulnerability and clarity aren't just "nice"; they drive a 23% jump in profit. 
  • Signal Management: How you handle bad news is the loudest form of communication you have. 
  • Consistency is King: Regular, human rhythms stop anxiety from filling the gaps.